Love and Lust!

What may seem to you as love might not neccesarily be. What bothers me the most is that people cannot differentiate between love and lust. People still get it wrong! I'm no love guru but hey sometimes things are just quite obvious. There is a fine line between love and lust and trust me, the line is really fine!
The question that you should ask yourself is that are you just his bootycall? Some of my friends are just bootycalls yet they still fail to see that. You should be worried if he only calls you really late and if he only calls you to remind you about your visit to his house.
That line crossed.
How to differentiate between love and lust. I did my own research and I came up with atleast 5 signs of love and lust.
Lustville!
It is often hard to catch that lusting eye. My top five hints that shows that you are nothing more than a shag-mate are:
SIGNS OF LUST

• You're totally focused on a person's looks and body.
• You're interested in having sex, but not in having conversations.
• You'd rather keep the relationship on a fantasy level, not discuss real feelings.
• You want to leave soon after sex rather than cuddling or breakfast the next morning.
• You are lovers, but not friends.

Endless love!
Some may argue that sex gives a relationship a stable core but sometimes that's not really the case.
SIGNS OF LOVE

• You want to spend quality time together other than sex.
• You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing.
• You want to honestly listen to each other's feelings, make each other happy.
• He or she motivates you to be a better person.
• You want to get to meet his or her family and friends.

It's time for introspection. Now the last thing I want you to do for me is look deep into your relationship. Now tell me are you in lust or love?

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/emotional-freedom/201108/lust-vs-love-do-you-know-the-difference

Crush Diaries!

I was told by a friend once that she'd do anything for love and I mean A-N-Y-T-H-I-N-G. My friend is a typical flirt and she doesn't live life with regrets. Her life is just mixed with different personalities, that I never knew they existed.
The thing that got me thinking about her is that she is the inspiration behind this post..."Crushes". We all have our embarrassing moments regarding a certain crush. I remember I had a crush on this guy for six full years and I never said a word to him.
My friend on the other side, she did drastic things. She reminded me of the CSI because she was always on top of her game, within an hour she already knew basic stuff about the guy like where he stays, what is his pet's name etc.  I still wonder where she got some of the information from.
I must admit I was impressed by her courage because it takes guts to speak to a guy you really like. Is it a bad thing though to tell a guy how you feel? I say shying in the corner and waiting for the guy to make that move is so late 80's.
Guys are just guys, he may like you but you might be giving him mixed signals that he ends up not making that move. Being the loving blogger that I am, I decided to give you five tips that he is into you.
To be or not to be!

• Eye Contact: You always catch him staring, when you look back he shys away.
• Time: He finds time to talk with you.
• Body Language: He sometimes leans towards you. When you are talking to him, he fidgets.
• Smile: He smiles at you and tries to be friendly.
• He listens: He takes note of each and everything you say and he doesn't forget.

So girls get your groove on and do it....yeah tell him that you "LIKE HIM". Remember you live once, it could have been different if we were cats but sadly we not! Take care.