Tuesday 6 March 2012

Love and Lust!

What may seem to you as love might not neccesarily be. What bothers me the most is that people cannot differentiate between love and lust. People still get it wrong! I'm no love guru but hey sometimes things are just quite obvious. There is a fine line between love and lust and trust me, the line is really fine!
The question that you should ask yourself is that are you just his bootycall? Some of my friends are just bootycalls yet they still fail to see that. You should be worried if he only calls you really late and if he only calls you to remind you about your visit to his house.
That line crossed.
How to differentiate between love and lust. I did my own research and I came up with atleast 5 signs of love and lust.
Lustville!
It is often hard to catch that lusting eye. My top five hints that shows that you are nothing more than a shag-mate are:
SIGNS OF LUST
  • You're totally focused on a person's looks and body.
  • You're interested in having sex, but not in having conversations.
  • You'd rather keep the relationship on a fantasy level, not discuss real feelings.
  • You want to leave soon after sex rather than cuddling or breakfast the next morning.
  • You are lovers, but not friends.
Endless love!
Some may argue that sex gives a relationship a stable core but sometimes that's not really the case.
SIGNS OF LOVE
  • You want to spend quality time together other than sex.
  • You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing.
  • You want to honestly listen to each other's feelings, make each other happy.
  • He or she motivates you to be a better person.
  • You want to get to meet his or her family and friends.
It's time for introspection. Now the last thing I want you to do for me is look deep into your relationship. Now tell me are you in lust or love?

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/emotional-freedom/201108/lust-vs-love-do-you-know-the-difference

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