Friday 2 March 2012

Crush Diaries!

I was told by a friend once that she'd do anything for love and I mean A-N-Y-T-H-I-N-G. My friend is a typical flirt and she doesn't live life with regrets. Her life is just mixed with different personalities, that I never knew they existed.
The thing that got me thinking about her is that she is the inspiration behind this post..."Crushes". We all have our embarrassing moments regarding a certain crush. I remember I had a crush on this guy for six full years and I never said a word to him.
My friend on the other side, she did drastic things. She reminded me of the CSI because she was always on top of her game, within an hour she already knew basic stuff about the guy like where he stays, what is his pet's name etc.  I still wonder where she got some of the information from.
I must admit I was impressed by her courage because it takes guts to speak to a guy you really like. Is it a bad thing though to tell a guy how you feel? I say shying in the corner and waiting for the guy to make that move is so late 80's.
Guys are just guys, he may like you but you might be giving him mixed signals that he ends up not making that move. Being the loving blogger that I am, I decided to give you five tips that he is into you.
To be or not to be!
  • Eye Contact: You always catch him staring, when you look back he shys away.
  • Time: He finds time to talk with you.
  • Body Language: He sometimes leans towards you. When you are talking to him, he fidgets.
  • Smile: He smiles at you and tries to be friendly.
  • He listens: He takes note of each and everything you say and he doesn't forget.
So girls get your groove on and do it....yeah tell him that you "LIKE HIM". Remember you live once, it could have been different if we were cats but sadly we not! Take care.

2 comments:

  1. Beautiful piece dear... but what if you do not like him? what then?

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  2. You don't like him, you don't like him and nothing will change that. Just don't lead them on!

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